The other day, Super Hero and I were driving home from errands. It's always a risk to have any sort of conversation in a moving vehicle with a deaf person. Not only can they miss very important signs, they can veer off the road. ;-) Have you ever seen that Seinfeld episode with Kramer as he's "interpreting" what Marlee Matlin signs? Marlee's character can lipread and signs what she sees this couple across the room saying. Her character gets the information correct, but Kramer totally screws up the "interpreting" part. The hilarious part is, although "sweep together" and "sleep together" look similar when spoken, the signs look nothing alike. So only a person that knows both languages understands how stupid it is that Kramer gets it all messed up.
That's kinda what a conversation with a deaf engineer looks like. I want to give you context for our conversation, but it really ruins the true beauty of how illogically concrete our conversation was.
Me: What's your interview for?
Him: A job.
Me: I Know that. But where?
Him: At home.
Me: No. I know it's a PHONE interview. Where is the JOB?
Him: I have no idea.
Me: You have no idea? You're interviewing for a job and you have no idea where the job is?
Him: Yes. I'm tired of interviewing. So I figure when I finally get a job, then I'll worry about where it is.
This conversation happens in bursts of two or three words because he has to watch the road. Which becomes even more frustrating because then I'm not sure which signs he has seen. So, do I repeat myself, or keep going?
As we're driving home (the person was supposed to call at 1 p.m., ), he keeps pointing to the clock on the dashboard.
Him: It's 12:56!
We keep driving. I notice him looking at the clock some more.
Him: It's 12:58! We're going to be late.
More driving. I think the slowest person in the world is in front of us. Super Hero points that out, too.
Him: (Pointing to the clock, in case I wasn't paying attention before) It's 12:59!
Me: Yes, it is.
Drive. Drive. Drive. We haven't pulled into our house quite yet, and....
Him: (pointing to the clock) It's 1:00! We're late! I KNEW it. I KNEW we'd be late.
Me: I doubt this guy's waiting by his phone to dial it at 1 p.m. We're fine.
He runs into the house to where the video phone is set up. Phew. No missed calls. He sits there for the next 20 minutes waiting for the phone to ring so he can answer his TV. Nothing. He decides to get up and make lunch. I'm sitting in the living room, looking at my phone. He's making himself lunch and all of a sudden yells "shoot!" and runs into the schoolroom.
Him: Why didn't you TELL ME that the phone was ringing?!!
Me: Because I didn't HEAR the phone ringing.
See that wonderful logic happening here? I'm the hearing person. I'm supposed to hear everything.
So, like most problems in the house, the wife/mother gets blamed and she doesn't even have to be in the same room. It's all good. He got his phone interview. He got his lunch. And he might get an in person interview. He finds that out next week.
Oh - and the job is in Vancouver. So. Now you know.